Mati - Female Chart
7 Aug 1876 NS, 13:00, LMT -0:23:04
Leeuwarden Netherlands, 53°N12', 005°E46'
Geocentric Tropical Zodiac
Placidus Houses, True Node
Winston - Male Chart
30 Nov 1874 NS, 01:30, UT +0:00
Woodstock UK, 51°N52', 001°W21'
Geocentric Tropical Zodiac
Placidus Houses, True Node
ASPECTS FROM MATI TO WINSTON
Mati's
Moon Square Winston's Sun
Orb 2°49' Separating
'Opposites attract' could the theme for this combination of personal planets.
There is an instant spark when Mati and Winston meet, whether they choose to
enjoy a friendship or a more intimate relationship. The world seems more exciting
when they are together. When together Mati and Winston are able to broaden
their horizons in ways they had not thought possible. Each one seems to fill
a void
deep inside the other. In astrology it is considered important to have a combination
of personal planets in order to enjoy a deep relationship, but this can be
a difficult combination once the initial excitement has worn off. Friction
easily
arises and what was once attractive becomes irritating. The success of this
relationship largely depends on each person's ability to accept the other person's
differences.
Winston may eventually have difficulty understanding Mati's emotional nature.
Winston may feel impatient and frustrated by the limitations placed on him
by Mati. Mati may feel overwhelmed by Winston's personality. The initial excitement
of the association with someone so opposing in nature may be replaced by feelings
of insecurity. It's important for both Mati and Winston to continue to appreciate
each other's differences at all times and to realise that this relationship
is
potentially very rewarding if the difficulties can be faced and resolutions
found.
Mati's Moon Trine Winston's Mercury
Orb 7°04' Applying
This is an ideal combination for a personal relationship in which two people
enjoy ease of communication. Mati and Winston enjoy each other's company because
they are able to communicate comfortably. They enjoy discussions and are not
concerned about arguments. Many personal relationships fail simply because
two people are unable to communicate both their thoughts and feelings. The
synastry
of these two planets means that Mati and Winston are able to tell each other
not only what they are thinking, but also how they are feeling. They are able
to do so in a manner that is not threatening or hurtful to each other. Therefore
Mati and Winston are both safe in the knowledge that they are not going to
overreact, trampling on each other's feelings. Likewise Mati and Winston are
easily able
to acknowledge the value of the each other's thoughts and feelings. At times
Mati and Winston may even feel they are telepathic together, seemingly not
needing words to communicate but understanding each other's unspoken thoughts.
Together
Mati and Winston are able to take a balanced approach combining passion and
reason. They have an understanding and rapport that enables them to clarify
their own
thoughts and feelings. Mati is likely to be the more intuitive of the two,
while Winston is likely to rely more on the intellect when communicating.
Mati's Moon Sesquisquare Winston's Jupiter
Orb 1°58' Separating
Although there can be some difficulties with this combination, on the whole
this is a positive combination. Mati and Winston enjoy each other's company
and feel
a certain zest for life when together. Mati and Winston share a need for fun-filled
adventures and the capability of achieving their goals. They both feel that
the world is their oyster which is ready to explore together. This can include
holidays
in far-away places, adventure travel and also encompasses any activity which
expands their minds and views of life. This is a meeting of higher-minds. Mati
feels that Winston expands her horizons. Mati feels safe and appreciated in
this relationship. Winston knows that Mati is a comrade in arms when it comes
to fun
and adventure. Winston knows that he is truly appreciated for his generosity
and optimism. Together Mati and Winston can conquer the world. Nothing seems
too far-fetched. And this is where problems can lie. It is possible that neither
Mati nor Winston know when enough is enough. There is a saying that 'you can
have too much of a good thing'. This is one of the underlying problems of this
association. Mati and Winston need to make sure that they do not become too
grandiose in their dreams. Overinflated ideas of their capabilities are not
helpful and
can lead both Mati and Winston into troubled waters. Another complication can
arise if Mati and Winston do not share the same values, because morals and
beliefs play an important role in this relationship. However, if Mati and Winston
share
the same beliefs and can exercise some restraint this can be a positive combination
for a long-term relationship.
Mati's Moon Semisquare Winston's Neptune
Orb 2°54' Applying
Romance is a major theme in a union that involves the Moon and the planet Neptune.
With this combination of planets Mati and Winston both feel that they are meant
to be together. Perhaps they believe that it is a union of their souls. This
is the height of romantic love. However, with romantic love there is always
the possibility of disillusionment. Mati and Winston are likely to stumble
across
obstacles in this relationship because of unrealistic and overly idealistic
expectations of each other. It is difficult for them to maintain the heights
of love first
attained at the beginning of the relationship. Misunderstandings can easily
arise. After the first flush of love Mati feels that her emotional needs are
being ignored,
that Winston does not understand her. It is even possible that Mati feels that
Winston is being deceptive in some manner. There is a danger that Winston does
feel the need to hide behind a facade, failing to be his true self. Perhaps
Winston feels that he cannot live up to Mati's expectations. Despair within
this relationship
needs to be avoided by both Mati and Winston facing their feelings of loss
in previous relationships. They need to face the problems honestly in order
to avoid
the breakdown of trust and ultimately the relationship. As a result Mati and
Winston may be able to recapture their sense of belonging together which was
so strong in the initial stages of their union.
Mati's Sun Trine Winston's Sun
Orb 7°33' Applying
When two people's Sun signs are connecting in a positive manner it augurs well
for any relationship. However, it is an ideal combination for a close, personal
relationship whether it be a close friendship or love relationship. There is
an instant rapport and the two people seem to shine more in their own lives
as a result of such a connection. Mati and Winston enjoy each other's company
and feel that the other person is giving something special to the relationship,
adding a little sunshine to their lives. Mati and Winston probably experienced
an instant attraction when they first met, warming to each other's personalities.
This is because Mati and Winston have a lot in common and tend to view the
world in the same fashion. Sharing a common purpose they work and play well
together. It is easy for them to co-operate, creating harmony in shared enterprises
and activities. In fact Mati and Winston are likely to experience luck and
good fortune in joint projects. There can be a tendency for friendly rivalry,
but this usually brings out the best in both Mati and Winston. All in all it
is a very successful combination of personal planets.
Mati's Sun Square Winston's Mercury
Orb 2°19' Applying
The importance of communication in relationships cannot be emphasised enough.
Without understanding of another person's point of view and the ability to
communicate one's own thoughts and feelings a relationship can easily breakdown.
This is a difficult combination for communications in a relationship. Mati
and Winston have difficulty understanding each other's point of view. They
cannot communicate their thoughts and feelings easily. Consequently Mati and
Winston have trouble being together and a certain tension exists in the relationship.
Mati needs to be wary of having too much pride, of trying to override Winston's
views through sheer force of personality. Mati takes a superior attitude to
Winston, which proves detrimental in the long run. Winston feels misunderstood,
knowing that his ideas are so different to Mati's. There is a danger that Winston
starts keeping his thoughts to himself thereby blocking any chance of communications
improving. As long as both Mati and Winston continue to try to overcome these
obstacles then their union has a chance for success. They may find it of benefit
to take time out and write down their thoughts and feelings during times of
stress rather than speaking on the spur of the moment.
Mati's Sun Trine Winston's Venus
Orb 6°45' Applying
The combination of the Sun and the personal planet Venus is a positive one
for personal relationships. It suggests that there is a sense of harmony and
abundance in this union. It's likely that Mati and Winston felt a strong attraction
when they first met, possibly falling deeply in love. The durability of the
attraction depends on other connections between the planets. However, Mati
and Winston are likely to remain friends even if they do not maintain an intimate
partnership. Both Mati and Winston feel at ease in each other's company, because
they both feel that the other person is contributing positively to the union.
As a result Mati and Winston can relax and enjoy the benefits of their friendship.
They seem to be able to settle arguments in a friendly and loving fashion,
communicating with ease. Mati feels that Winston enhances her sense of self.
She feels valued by Winston and this helps her to truly shine in the world.
Winston feels that his creativity is enhanced by his relationship with Mati.
The warmth and generosity of Mati helps Winston better express himself in relationships.
Perhaps Winston also benefits financially through his association with Mati.
Mati's Sun Sextile Winston's Mars
Orb 1°17' Applying
This combination of the Sun and the planet Mars is a positive one for a working
partnership that calls for concentrated effort on a joint project. It also
ignites a strong sexual spark for a personal relationship, one that continues
to flare throughout the union. It is an exciting combination. There is never
a dull moment when Mati and Winston are together. They love and fight with
energy. Mati and Winston are hard working and energetic, achieving more together
than they can on their own. Together Mati and Winston are able to tackle most
of life's challenges with confidence and a positive attitude, taking the initiative,
rather than sitting back and waiting for things to happen. Together they also
enjoy taking few risks in life, particularly ones that satisfy their sense
of adventure. They need only be wary of becoming too impulsive, of taking unnecessary
risks that lead to dangerous ground. Mati feels that Winston provides the impetus
and drive to help achieve her full potential. Mati is aware that her personality
also helps Winston achieve his goals. Winston is excited by Mati's powerful
personality and is inspired in his ambitions. This is certainly a progressive
relationship that makes an impact on both Mati and Winston and those around
them.
Mati's Sun Opposition Winston's Saturn
Orb 5°41' Separating
Many astrologers believe that a connection between the serious planet Saturn
and a personal planet such as the Sun is important, providing the cement for
a long-lasting relationship. In other words, a serious planet is needed for
a serious, meaningful union such as marriage. It is certainly true that the
combination of the Sun and Saturn is found in many meaningful relationships.
However, the planet Saturn can also cause problems. Certainly this combination
indicates that Mati and Winston both view this as a serious association, whether
it is a marriage, friendship or a working partnership. Both Mati and Winston
are committed to their association. It is likely that they experienced a strong
attraction in the initial stages of their relationship. When Mati and Winston
first met they each knew they had discovered a potential serious relationship,
one to which they could commit and build on over a lifetime. If they believe
in reincarnation, then it is likely that they felt a karmic attraction when
they first met. Perhaps this was a moment of recognition when they first looked
into the other person's eyes. However, the very qualities, which they seriously
considered as attractive in the initial stages of the relationship, can become
the source of friction if they are not careful. In particular, Winston needs
to be wary of becoming too critical and judgmental. Initially Winston found
Mati's personality traits to be worthy of a committed union. He admired Mati's
qualities as complementing his own. However, it is easy for Winston to forget
this attraction. As the relationship develops he feels threatened by the force
of Mati's personality and takes a superior attitude in defence. As a result
Mati feels threatened, disliking the authoritarian side of Winston. If Mati
is not careful her self-confidence is whittled away and the relationship becomes
onerous. It is vital that both Mati and Winston work at developing a stable
basis for communication and understanding in this relationship. If both Mati
and Winston work at maintaining their own self-confidence as well as mutual
respect then they have the makings for a very successful marriage or working
relationship. Much of their success may depend on other supportive, positive
connections between them.
Mati's Sun Conjunction Winston's Uranus
Orb 0°03' Separating
This is a relationship full of verve and romance. Mati and Winston are attracted
to each other from the moment that they first meet and continue to experience
excitement and joy in each other's company. The relationship brings something
new and original into Mati's and Winston's lives and they both feel enlivened
as a result. Life becomes more of an adventure when Mati and Winston are together.
Their relationship may run a somewhat erratic or unorthodox course, but Mati
and Winston are both happy in the knowledge that theirs is a unique union.
Mati is excited by Winston's creativity, which somehow enhances her personal
goals. Winston helps Mati to see life in a new and different manner, freeing
Mati from past inhibitions. Winston knows that he has encountered someone who
truly appreciates him as an individual. Winston can better express his original
thoughts and ideas as a result of his relationship with Mati. Together Mati
and Winston may explore an unusual hobby or pastime such as new technology,
metaphysics, science, electronics, humanitarian or environmental concerns.
Mati's Sun Square Winston's Pluto
Orb 6°09' Applying
This combination of planets indicates a relationship that is life changing,
whether it be a friendship, love union or work association. Both Mati and Winston
feel a powerful attraction for each other in the initial stages of the relationship.
It is as if they are both compelled to relate, perhaps even in response to
strong opposition from outside sources. Once the exciting first stages of the
union have passed, it is likely that both Mati and Winston become embroiled
in a struggle for dominance. There is no longer an impetus for change and the
challenge has become wearisome. Now Mati and Winston's relationship resembles
a battleground in which both try to change the other. It is possible that these
battles become emotionally abusive, perhaps even violent. It is important for
both Mati and Winston to avoid senseless battles from which neither emerges
triumphant. Money may be at the root of the problems, or it could be that sexual
matters are a key theme in this relationship. Either way it is likely that
Mati feels overwhelmed by this union to the point where she suffers from low
self-esteem. There could be a tendency for Winston to try to bully Mati that
may only make matters worse. Mati is faced with the challenge of delving deep
into her personal resources to find a sense of self-value. Winston is a powerful
force in this union and needs to learn how to use his power wisely.
Mati's Sun Trine Winston's Chiron
Orb 3°02' Applying
This is a life-changing relationship that results in both Mati and Winston
being presented with opportunities to heal past wounds in order that they may
live fuller and richer lives. Together they enjoy a sense of liberation that
comes from truly loving another person. Winston is more likely to take the
role of teacher or healer, having a significant effect on Mati's life choices.
In this role Winston is also challenged to take a long, hard look at himself
before imparting his wisdom. The adage "physician heal thyself" could
be a theme for Winston. In return Mati learns much from Winston's experiences
and insights, perhaps even discovering her true-life purpose. This is true
for intimate relationships, and also for student-teacher and patient-healer
liaisons. Either way this can be a gentle, loving union based on mutual respect
and compassion.
Mati's Mercury Square Winston's Mercury
Orb 0°20' Separating
Communication plays a central role in the success of any relationship whether
it be a love union, friendship or work association. This combination indicates
a difficult liaison. It is a particularly tricky combination for personal relationships,
which can thrive or fail on the basis of harmony or disharmony in communications.
The combination can also create tension in friendships and work associations.
The difficulties arise when Mati and Winston try to communicate their thoughts
and opinions. Either Mati and Winston disagree on many subjects or they fail
to communicate exactly what is on their minds. Either way the end result is
tension and arguments. Criticism plays too prominent a role in this relationship.
Both Mati and Winston feel irritable when together, but don't really understand
the true cause of the friction. They feel compelled to communicate with each
other; perhaps they have to work together on a joint project. However, harmony
seems to elude this relationship. Mati and Winston need to find methods of
communicating clearly and calmly in order for this association to succeed.
Perhaps written communication could help take the heat out of communications,
or involving a third person as an advocate could prove beneficial.
Mati's Mercury Trine Winston's Venus
Orb 4°06' Applying
The combination of the personal planets of Mercury and Venus is a desirable
one for an intimate union, and certainly advantageous to any association which
requires harmony and collaboration. Mati and Winston enjoy each other's company,
finding it easy to co-operate and share their experiences. They are compatible.
Conversation has an easy flow and pastimes are fun, free of the restraints
that sometimes hamper clear communication. Mati and Winston share an appreciation
of the arts, perhaps even partaking in a joint creative or artistic activity.
Discussions are harmonious because Mati and Winston are so often in agreement,
including money. They concur on how money is saved and spent and enjoyed. Mati
and Winston value the intellectual stimulation provided by each other. Mati,
in particular, experiences mental inspiration from her association with Winston.
Perhaps Winston is Mati's muse in some form of the arts. Mati gains confidence
in her opinions and ideas as a result of her relationship with Winston. In
return Winston appreciates Mati's intellect. Winston feels able to relax within
this relationship knowing that Mati encourages rather than criticises him.
Mati's Mercury Sextile Winston's Mars
Orb 1°23' Separating
There is an instant spark of attraction when Mati and Winston first meet, and
this continues during the course of the relationship. The spark is likely to
be an intellectual one, which may or may not result in a sexual attraction.
Mati and Winston are stimulated by each other's company, enjoying lively conversations
and energetic activities. Both Mati and Winston learn much from each other
and enjoy facing challenges together which in turn help them to move forward
in their own lives. This combination of the planets Mercury and Mars is ideal
for any working association, which requires co-operation and drive in order
to complete a challenging project. However, it can also be beneficial for personal
relationships involving individuals who enjoy change and challenge. Mati is
challenged to use her wits in this relationship. Winston's drive and determination
force Mati to clarify her thoughts and opinions. Mati is likely to find this
aspect of the relationship exciting. In turn Winston enjoys Mati's intellectual
input which helps him achieve his personal goals. Together Mati and Winston
may dare to take risks in their lives which lead to adventures that might otherwise
have been missed.
Mati's Mercury Conjunction Winston's Uranus
Orb 2°42' Separating
This is an exciting and unpredictable relationship. Mati and Winston enjoy
a lively union, whether it be a romance, friendship or work association. They
take pleasure in topical conversations, sparking new ideas and ways of thinking.
They may also enjoy taking part in an unusual activity or pursuing an environmental,
humanitarian or political cause. This combination of planets indicates intellectual,
rather than emotional, stimulation. Consequently this combination may indicate
a friendship or work association, rather than a more personal union. However,
an intimate relationship with other aspects is enhanced by this combination
if both partners enjoy freedom. Mati and Winston are excited by each other's
minds. In particular Mati realises that Winston sparks her creativity. Both
Mati and Winston enjoy a new-found sense of freedom in each other's company.
Mati's Mercury Square Winston's Pluto
Orb 3°30' Applying
This is a potentially explosive combination of the planets Mercury and Pluto,
with communication playing a key role. The problem is that this combination
indicates a battle of two minds. Both Mati and Winston discover that they trigger
forceful emotions and thoughts in each other. At times the intensity becomes
overwhelming and they don't know what to do. It is vital that both Mati and
Winston communicate honestly, keeping all emotions and thoughts out in the
open as much as is possible. Otherwise their relationship is likely to become
volcanic, possibly even abusive as they battle to make themselves understood.
They both find it near impossible to simply let matters slide, feeling that
they must tackle each other head on. This works well if both Mati and Winston
are able to enjoy penetrating and honest discussions. However, if they don't
then one of them, probably Mati, is likely to suffer. Positively this relationship
is transformative. Negatively it is abusive. The nature of the union depends
on Mati and Winston's personalities and other aspects of their association.
Mati's Mercury Trine Winston's Chiron
Orb 0°22' Applying
Kind and gentle communication is an essential ingredient for success in this
relationship. Through considerate interaction Mati and Winston can develop
a warm and loving relationship, whether this be a love union, work association,
student and teacher connection or friendship. There is a childlike quality
to this liaison, possibly Mati and Winston share a love of children or enjoy
recapturing some of their lost childhood. Through this relationship Mati learns
a vital life lesson, one that furthers her spiritual journey. In some way Winston
helps Mati to let go of intellectual insecurities, paving the way for a more
wholesome approach to learning. It is possible that Mati is a student of Winston's.
In return Winston realises new skills, in particular that of communicating
information with compassion and empathy.
Mati's Venus Semisquare Winston's Moon
Orb 0°34' Separating
When planets combine unfavourably in personal relationships it can produce
either sparks, which excite both parties, or friction. Either way a challenge
is presented which needs to be met in order to succeed in the long term. With
this combination Winston and Mati have difficulty expressing their feelings
and often feel misunderstood by each other. Winston and Mati have trouble relaxing
and feeling at ease with each other. There is a lack of harmony that troubles
them. Winston and Mati sometimes feel that they are battling to find shared
activities that they can both enjoy. In extreme cases they may feel that they
are fighting against the other person's involvement with an absorbing pastime.
Or perhaps they feel that their partner stands in the way of them really enjoying
their own pleasurable pursuits. No matter how much Winston and Mati want to
enjoy themselves, their partner seems to be standing in opposition, or determined
to do their own thing. Depending on other aspects of their relationship and
the nature of the combination of these planets, this can be a real problem.
It's also likely that they have difficulty deciding how to save and spend their
money. Winston is likely to feel some insecurity in the relationship. Mati
is likely to feel that the Winston's feelings and insecurities are holding
her back from relating to other people and the world in the way that she wants.
On a more positive note this combination can add a spark to life and keep Winston
and Mati willing to resolve difficulties to a satisfactory conclusion.
Mati's Venus Trine Winston's Mercury
Orb 3°33' Separating
The combination of the personal planets of Mercury and Venus is a desirable
one for an intimate union, and certainly advantageous to any association which
requires harmony and collaboration. Winston and Mati enjoy each other's company,
finding it easy to co-operate and share their experiences. They are compatible.
Conversation has an easy flow and pastimes are fun, free of the restraints
that sometimes hamper clear communication. Winston and Mati share an appreciation
of the arts, perhaps even partaking in a joint creative or artistic activity.
Discussions are harmonious because Winston and Mati are so often in agreement,
including money. They concur on how money is saved and spent and enjoyed. Winston
and Mati value the intellectual stimulation provided by each other. Winston,
in particular, experiences mental inspiration from his association with Mati.
Perhaps Mati is Winston's muse in some form of the arts. Winston gains confidence
in his opinions and ideas as a result of his relationship with Mati. In return
Mati appreciates Winston's intellect. Mati feels able to relax within this
relationship knowing that Winston encourages rather than criticises her.
Mati's Venus Square Winston's Mars
Orb 2°30' Separating
This is a strong combination for a love union because it creates an intense
sexual attraction. The durability and nature of the relationship depends on
other connections between Mati and Winston. Desire is strong, perhaps too strong
at times in this relationship. Mati and Winston are likely to fall in love
at first sight enjoying a passionate union, the type of love affair featured
in romance novels. At first both Mati and Winston enjoy the intense physical
nature of the union, but as time goes on the flames seem to burn too strongly.
Winston begins to feel possessive and perhaps somewhat obsessive, eager to
maintain the force of passion. Mati feels overwhelmed by the passion of the
romance and the force of Winston's nature, and is in danger of becoming repulsed
rather than attracted to Winston. As a result the relationship becomes a combat
zone. Mati and Winston start to compete rather than co-operate. The positive
side of the relationship is the strong attraction felt by both Mati and Winston.
However, it is important for both Mati and Winston to learn to temper their
desires in this union. They need to remain focused on co-operation and communication
in order to keep an appropriate balance in the partnership. While this combination
is often found between marriage or sexual partners, it can also be encountered
in friendships or work associations which involve working on an artistic project.
However, it is important that both individuals remain focused on the creative
project at hand because a sexual flirtation could easily get out of control.
Mati's Venus Square Winston's Chiron
Orb 4°16' Applying
This combination of the planet Venus and the asteroid Chiron indicates a significant
but difficult relationship. Mati and Winston love each other, either as friends
or lovers, but have difficulty avoiding misunderstandings and upsets. The problem
is that their union is strongly influenced by childhood traumas. Present-day
situations bring memories of previous painful experiences to the surface. Inadvertently
Winston seems to upset Mati's feelings. There is also a tendency for Winston
to blame Mati for all of her problems. Mati needs to develop a strong sense
of self-understanding in order that she can make a clear commitment to this
relationship. Once committed, Mati would be wise to ensure that her needs are
met. In return Winston needs to develop a sensitive awareness of Mati's emotional
wounds. This sensitivity will serve him well in other situations. If the difficulties
can be overcome, this union can bring a sense of freedom and joy.
Mati's Mars Square Winston's Mercury
Orb 0°33' Separating
A feisty relationship is the result of this combination of the planets Mercury
and Mars. When Winston and Mati are together the sparks fly. The nature of
these sparks depends on other aspects of the relationship. On the one hand
Winston and Mati may be positively stimulated by each other's company, enjoying
lively conversations and energetic activities. Both Winston and Mati learn
much from each other and may enjoy facing challenges together which in turn
help them to move forward in their own lives. However, it is more likely that
this combination indicates a combustive reaction when Winston and Mati are
together. The relationship is likely to be fraught with misunderstandings and
angry reactions. In particular Mati is aggressive, perhaps even trying to bully
Winston to do things her way. Mati honestly believes that she knows what is
right for Winston and energetically sets about trying to achieve her goals.
However, Winston resents these tactics and becomes critical of everything that
Mati does. There seems to be no middle ground and tempers are frayed. Winston
is usually able to have the last word, but Mati knows how to act in a way that
is guaranteed to escalate any argument. Of course there is always the possibility
that both Winston and Mati enjoy the drama of this relationship. However, if
this is not the case then the lesson is to learn to respect each other's differences
and to channel all of the energy created by this partnership into positive
activities and lively discussions.
Mati's Mars Trine Winston's Venus
Orb 4°59' Applying
This is the ideal combination for a love union because it creates a strong
sexual attraction and compatibility. Winston and Mati are likely to fall in
love at first sight enjoying a passionate union, the type of love affair featured
in romance novels. The durability of the relationship depends on other connections
between Winston and Mati. However, if the love union is long term, both Winston
and Mati can rely on the sexual attraction to help them through troubled times.
Winston and Mati enjoy spending time together, in particular welcoming pleasure
trips, romantic outings and artistic activities. They may also find pleasure
in a joint creative project. Mati is likely to be the more assertive partner,
both in bed and out of bed. Mati enjoys taking the lead and Winston is happy
to acquiesce. While this combination is ideal for marriage or love affairs,
it can also be a creative connection for friendships or work associations that
involve working on an artistic project. However, it is important that both
individuals remain focused on the creative project at hand unless a sexual
flirtation is welcomed and appropriate.
Mati's Mars Sextile Winston's Mars
Orb 0°30' Separating
This is a feisty relationship full of healthy competition and possibly sexual
frisson. In this association both Mati and Winston are challenged to produce
their best efforts. They feel the sparks fly when they are together, bringing
out an ambitious side to both their natures. As friends or work colleagues
they enjoy the rivalry, and it is always possible that their shared drive and
energy could become sexual, tipping their relationship into a love affair.
Mati and Winston enjoy energetic activities such as sports and outdoor games.
Together they feel able to conquer the world and overcome all obstacles in
their path. Depending on other aspects of their relationship Mati and Winston
may be lovers or friends, but this strong influence of the planet Mars can
also indicate a work partnership that requires plenty of drive and initiative.
Mati's Mars Conjunction Winston's Uranus
Orb 1°49' Separating
Sexual attraction plays a key role in this relationship. Mati and Winston find
each other's company exciting and feel compelled to explore an intimate relationship.
They are aroused both in and out of the bedroom. The initial stages of the
relationship are particularly stimulating, and the union continues to flourish
as long as Mati and Winston give each other the freedom to follow their individual
interests. The electric nature of Mati and Winston's association is such that
they need time away from each other in order to slow down and experiences some
tranquillity in their separate lives. This is not a peaceful or stable relationship
but rather one that offers ongoing stimulation and change. For this reason
the relationship may be short-lived, a thrilling adventure which soon loses
it spark through a lack of commitment. However, other aspects of Mati and Winston's
nature may provide the tenacity and steadiness needed for a long-term commitment.
The challenge is to allow each other plenty of independence.
Mati's Mars Square Winston's Pluto
Orb 4°23' Applying
This is a passionate and explosive relationship fraught with hidden tension.
It is difficult for both Mati and Winston to conquer their own strong feelings
about this association. There is a real danger of this relationship becoming
an emotional battleground. Mati and Winston try to communicate in a calm and
loving manner, but their union is fraught with deep-seated problems which continually
surface in an explosive manner. The result is that they both become embroiled
in a fight for supremacy. There is also a danger for this relationship to become
emotionally and physically abusive. Winston feels threatened by Mati's drive
and initiative and compensates with controlling behaviour. As a result Mati
rebels. There is a clash of wills. A long-term intimate bond is a difficult
goal with this combination of the planets Mars and Pluto. However, it is possible
to direct the passion that Mati and Winston feel for each other into a positive
pursuit. Perhaps a challenging home-renovation project, or a demanding sports
activity or a regular workout at the gym could help alleviate the pent-up emotions.
Mati's Mars Trine Winston's Chiron
Orb 1°15' Applying
A common goal is needed in order the make the best of this combination of the
planet Mars and Chiron. If Mati and Winston share the same drive and ambition
then they can successfully overcome past failures and progress in their lives
together. Together they bring an element of play and laughter into areas of
their lives that were previously weighed down with pain and angst. Together
their activities take on a new glow. They may share an interest in the healing
arts or in teaching. Winston feels that Mati offers the energy and drive needed
to support his ventures. Whereas Mati appreciates Winston's insights and wisdom,
which enable her to better achieve her goals.
Mati's Jupiter Conjunction Winston's Mercury
Orb 5°06' Applying
This is a positive combination of the planets Mercury and Jupiter and provides
inspiration in any relationship whether it is a friendship, work association
or more intimate union. Both Winston and Mati discover new worlds through their
association. They enjoy broadening their minds through overseas travel or by
learning about different cultures in books and study courses. Philosophy, metaphysics
and religion are topics of conversation, which stimulate and expand their minds.
It's also possible that Winston and Mati pursue activities connected with philanthropic
or philosophical ideologies. In particular Winston's mind is extended through
his relationship with Mati. Winston is willing to listen and accept the wisdom
of Mati's ideas. In turn Winston is able to provide ways in which Mati can
better communicate her ideas. Together they are able to grow and learn.
Mati's Jupiter Opposition Winston's Pluto
Orb 1°16' Separating
Obstacles are strewn along the path of this relationship because of the difficult
combination of the planets Jupiter and Pluto. On the one hand Mati and Winston
feel a compelling need to relate to each other. On the other hand they find
their opposing values a formidable hurdle. The problem is that they fail to
understand each other at a deep level and yet this is an important component
in their relationship. Mati believes that she attempts to take an honest approach
to her partnership, but is undermined by Winston's insistence on delving beneath
the surface. Winston is frustrated in his efforts to get to the bottom of matters.
He is particularly angry when he perceives that Mati contradicts herself. Their
challenge is to find personal meaning in their own lives, while respecting
the other person's values and beliefs.
Mati's Saturn Opposition Winston's Moon
Orb 6°34' Applying
Many astrologers believe that a connection between the serious planet Saturn
and a personal planet such as the Moon is important, enabling the relationship
to be long lasting. However, this can also be a difficult connection. Winston
and Mati can both suffer from feelings of discontent and insecurity within
this union. They work hard to cover up their sense that some emotional warmth
is lacking, but there are times when they despair of getting their needs met.
Winston feels this lack of emotional warmth keenly. It is difficult for him
to relax and feel truly appreciated in this relationship. Mati brings a certain
coldness to the union, finding it difficult to generate emotional warmth. Mati
may feel that her attempts at intimacy are misunderstood and met with an overly-emotional
reaction from Winston. Much work needs to be done in order to understand each
other. On a positive note this combination of planets can indicate a committed
to resolve difficulties. Therefore Winston and Mati have the strong possibility
of being able to stay in this relationship on a long-term basis and reap the
rewards of a stable and secure union. A satisfying relationship can result
from Winston's and Mati's patience and persistence.
Mati's Saturn Square Winston's Sun
Orb 1°32' Separating
Many astrologers believe that a connection between the serious planet Saturn
and a personal planet such as the Sun is important, providing the cement for
a long-lasting relationship. In other words, a serious planet is needed for
a serious, meaningful union such as marriage. It is certainly true that the
combination of the Sun and Saturn is found in many meaningful relationships.
However, the planet Saturn can also cause problems. Certainly this combination
indicates that Winston and Mati both view this as a serious association, whether
it is a marriage, friendship or a working partnership. Both Winston and Mati
are committed to their association. It is likely that they experienced a strong
attraction in the initial stages of their relationship. When Winston and Mati
first met they each knew they had discovered a potential serious relationship,
one to which they could commit and build on over a lifetime. If they believe
in reincarnation, then it is likely that they felt a karmic attraction when
they first met. Perhaps this was a moment of recognition when they first looked
into the other person's eyes. However, the very qualities, which they seriously
considered as attractive in the initial stages of the relationship, can become
the source of friction if they are not careful. In particular, Mati needs to
be wary of becoming too critical and judgmental. Initially Mati found Winston's
personality traits to be worthy of a committed union. She admired Winston's
qualities as complementing her own. However, it is easy for Mati to forget
this attraction. As the relationship develops she feels threatened by the force
of Winston's personality and takes a superior attitude in defence. As a result
Winston feels threatened, disliking the authoritarian side of Mati. If Winston
is not careful his self-confidence is whittled away and the relationship becomes
onerous. It is vital that both Winston and Mati work at developing a stable
basis for communication and understanding in this relationship. If both Winston
and Mati work at maintaining their own self-confidence as well as mutual respect
then they have the makings for a very successful marriage or working relationship.
Much of their success may depend on other supportive, positive connections
between them.
Mati's Uranus Square Winston's Mercury
Orb 2°25' Applying
A lively and unpredictable relationship is the result of this combination of
planets. Winston and Mati enjoy the meeting of two minds and the sense of freedom
that they experience in each other's company. At first they both enjoy the
tension that crackles between them, but this soon becomes irritating. The problem
is that there is no peace to be experienced in this relationship. The constant
tension of two people having different ideas is a challenge. What seemed like
a meeting of two minds soon becomes a clashing of two minds. Another obstacle
to a close bond is a lack of commitment. As the relationship develops Winston
and Mati realise that it is difficult for them to predict the outcome of their
union. In particular Winston experiences discomfort because of Mati's unreliability.
Even if Mati is usually a reliable person, she seems unable to be constant
in her association with Winston. This is a difficult combination for a personal
relationship, although it can work depending on other aspects of the relationship.
It is difficult to find a balance in a friendship or work association.
Mati's Uranus Trine Winston's Venus
Orb 2°02' Applying
This combination of planets indicates an instant and vital magnetism. It is
the type of attraction in which Winston and Mati take one look at each other
across a crowded room and feel the sparks. Romance is alight and the relationship
develops at a rapid rate. Friends are amazed as the couple's union becomes
more and more intense. In the short term this relationship provides fun, excitement
and stimulation for both Winston and Mati. The long-term scenario depends on
other aspects of their relationship and the ability of both Winston and Mati
to respect each other's need for autonomy. It is all too easy for the initial
flame to burn out of control. For this reason this combination of planets can
be more prominent in relationships that contain the intrigue of a love affair,
rather than the stability of a long-term union. Winston feels particularly
struck by Cupid's arrow, ignited by the very presence of Mati. He wants his
love to be strong enough to keep the spark of excitement in the relationship.
However, Mati is hard to pin down and is likely to become bored once the initial
excitement starts to fade unless she is given plenty of room to be independent.
It may be difficult for Mati to make a commitment to this relationship unless
she is given the freedom to inspire Winston without feeling tied down to promises.
A strong bond can be achieved if Winston and Mati can find the right balance
between intimacy and personal freedom. If this is achieved then they can both
enjoy a long-term relationship full of joy and romance.
Mati's Uranus Sextile Winston's Mars
Orb 3°27' Applying
Sexual attraction plays a key role in this relationship. Winston and Mati find
each other's company exciting and feel compelled to explore an intimate relationship.
They are aroused both in and out of the bedroom. The initial stages of the
relationship are particularly stimulating, and the union continues to flourish
as long as Winston and Mati give each other the freedom to follow their individual
interests. The electric nature of Winston and Mati's association is such that
they need time away from each other in order to slow down and experiences some
tranquillity in their separate lives. This is not a peaceful or stable relationship
but rather one that offers ongoing stimulation and change. For this reason
the relationship may be short-lived, a thrilling adventure which soon loses
it spark through a lack of commitment. However, other aspects of Winston and
Mati's nature may provide the tenacity and steadiness needed for a long-term
commitment. The challenge is to allow each other plenty of independence.
Mati's Uranus Conjunction Winston's Uranus
Orb 4°46' Separating
This combination of the planets Uranus indicates an electric connection which
excites both Mati and Winston. They feel that they are on the same intellectual
wavelength, and welcome each other's creative ideas. Together they enjoy innovative
projects. Technology, science, politics, the environment, metaphysics and world
events may spark their curiosity. The key is intellectual stimulation and joint
discovery of new uncharted territories. Their relationship undergoes periods
of upheaval, but on the whole both Mati and Winston prefer the unexpected changes
to settling into a routine. Together Mati and Winston are able to enjoy independence,
enabling each other plenty of freedom to pursue their individual activities.
Mati's Uranus Square Winston's Pluto
Orb 1°25' Applying
Although not a major contributor to this relationship, the combination of the
planets Uranus and Pluto indicates a conflict in values. Mati's need for intellectual
stimulation is often met with opposition from Winston, who prefers to delve
into underlying meanings. Mati is more likely to experiment with various innovative
methods of tackling problems in order to reach a new solution; however, Winston
prefers to rake over old ground delving deeper and deeper in an effort to reach
a sound understanding. They clash and find it hard to form a basis of understanding.
Mati's Uranus Trine Winston's Chiron
Orb 1°42' Separating
Healing and growth are possible in this relationship. Mati and Winston are
able to leave behind painful memories of previous associations and pave new
paths of understanding. Together they enjoy exploring new ways of communicating
and learning about each other and their own personal lives. They are an inspiration
to each other. Mati challenges Winston to enter new territory. Mati motivates
radical changes in Winston's life, which are healing in certain ways. Winston
offers new insights which inspire Mati to new creative heights. Together Mati
and Winston may undertake an inspirational teaching project or explore unorthodox
methods of healing.
Mati's Neptune Trine Winston's Moon
Orb 5°42' Applying
Romance is a major theme in a union which involves the Moon and the planet
Neptune. With this combination of planets Winston and Mati both feel that they
are meant to be together. Perhaps they believe that it is a union of their
souls. This is the height of romantic love. Winston and Mati intuitively understand
each other and as a result their relationship proceeds from the start in a
gentle and loving manner. They may simply enjoy relaxing in each other's company
or together Winston and Mati may enjoy creative and harmonious pastimes which
enhance their union bringing joy and fulfilment. They could work jointly on
an artistic, musical or spiritual project, or simply share an inspirational
hobby. Either way, they are drawn to each other in a way that is not logical.
At times they may even feel as though they have a psychic connection. Winston
feels inspired by Mati to the point of longing to be in Mati's company. Mati
intuitively understands Winston's emotional needs and relates to Winston in
a caring manner. This is a harmonious relationship. Problems can occur if Winston
becomes overly dependent on Mati. However, on the whole it augurs well for
a personal relationship which thrives on mutual love and understanding.
Mati's Neptune Sesquisquare Winston's Venus
Orb 1°42' Applying
This association of the planets Venus and Neptune indicates idyllic love. Winston
and Mati meet and fall deeply in love, fully appreciating each other's unique
qualities. Romance abounds. Together Winston and Mati feel that they have found
true love such as only Romeo and Juliet and Daphnis and Chloe experienced.
However, there are problems associated with this combination of planets. Winston
and Mati find that the initial idyllic love can start to prove illusory in
the long term. As the relationship develops it becomes more difficult for them
to escape from the demands of the mundane world into a world of romance. They
become disillusioned. They would rather stay lost in a sea of blissful love
than be reminded of the responsibilities of their separate lives. Both Winston
and Mati are vulnerable in this state of pretence. They need to be wary of
circumstances or people who prey on their impressionable state. In particular
they need to avoid any spiritual groups, drugs and artistic enterprises that
may be deceptive in their nature. Once Winston and Mati have learned to face
their relationship honestly and with discrimination then they can enjoy a creative
and loving partnership as well as artistic and spiritual pursuits.
Mati's Neptune Square Winston's Saturn
Orb 4°16' Separating
The planet Saturn is a vital ingredient in relationship astrology. It is the
planet that represents stability and commitment and is seen by astrologers
as the necessary glue that holds a relationship together on a long-term basis.
Of course not everyone is seeking long-term commitment, but for those who are
Saturn is a welcome sign. In this case, however, the planet Neptune negates
some of the influence of Saturn. The planet Neptune is one that dissolves and
confuses matters. So on the one hand Winston and Mati feel strongly drawn to
each other, but on the other hand they have difficulty maintaining a meaningful
relationship. At first Winston and Mati may experience a feeling that their
relationship was written in the stars. In other words they may feel as though
they were destined to meet and form a union. This could be a personal relationship
or a friendship that involves a spiritual, artistic or philanthropic project.
Whatever the form of their relationship, Winston and Mati initially enjoy a
meaningful bond. The difficulty lies in the long term. Winston and Mati begin
to feel that they are pulling in opposite directions. They need to respect
each other's differences in order for the relationship to succeed in the long
term. Of course they may both agree that their union was destined to be for
a short period only.
Mati's Neptune Conjunction Winston's Neptune
Orb 6°53' Separating
This planetary combination of Neptune is not a significant one in relationship
astrology. It indicates common values, which can help form a basis for a relationship.
However, many other combinations of planets will make a more significant contribution
to this union between Mati and Winston.
Mati's Pluto Square Winston's Moon
Orb 5°04' Separating
This is an intense and powerful relationship. Winston and Mati feel a strong
attraction to each other, one that seems to unconsciously draw them together.
Winston's and Mati's deep feelings for each other need to be nurtured in a
loving manner in order for the union to be long lasting. However, this can
be quite difficult for Winston and Mati to achieve. It's not that they don't
love each other, because they do care very deeply. The problem is that at times
their intense emotions seem to erupt from nowhere. In fact the feelings have
been simmering under the surface ready to be expressed at any moment. The pressure
builds up quickly between Winston and Mati and before they know it they are
embroiled in an emotional drama. Of course this can vary, depending on how
Winston and Mati handle intense feelings. Some individuals thrive on intensity,
while others feel threatened and powerless. Winston is likely to feel that
his life has been transformed in some way by Mati. It's possible that Mati
has changed the way that Winston feels about the world, making him conscious
of things that have been bubbling under the surface for a long time. Life is
not the same for Winston once he encounters Mati. He may feel powerless, overwhelmed
by Mati's volatile nature. The key is for Winston is able to see through the
explosive behaviour to the true heart of Mati and to nurture Mati's goodness.
As a result Mati will deeply appreciate the emotional support offered by Winston.
If this does not occur then it is likely that Mati will feel angry about the
constant demands being placed on her by Winston. Mati will start to withdraw
and become isolated, only initiating contact in the relationship when she feels
at boiling point. The challenge for Mati is to maintain a loving attitude and
to give Winston time to learn his emotional lessons. This is indeed a passionate
personal union and one that needs to be loving, otherwise there is a danger
of abuse. This combination can also signify a secret love affair in which intense
feelings are indeed in the background. It can also depict an intense working
relationship in which power struggles abound, but it is more likely to point
to a personal union.
Mati's Pluto Opposition Winston's Mercury
Orb 6°57' Applying
This is a potentially explosive combination of the planets Mercury and Pluto,
with communication playing a key role. The problem is that this combination
indicates a battle of two minds. Both Winston and Mati discover that they trigger
forceful emotions and thoughts in each other. At times the intensity becomes
overwhelming and they don't know what to do. It is vital that both Winston
and Mati communicate honestly, keeping all emotions and thoughts out in the
open as much as is possible. Otherwise their relationship is likely to become
volcanic, possibly even abusive as they battle to make themselves understood.
They both find it near impossible to simply let matters slide, feeling that
they must tackle each other head on. This works well if both Winston and Mati
are able to enjoy penetrating and honest discussions. However, if they don't
then one of them, probably Winston, is likely to suffer. Positively this relationship
is transformative. Negatively it is abusive. The nature of the union depends
on Winston and Mati's personalities and other aspects of their association.
Mati's Pluto Quincunx Winston's Jupiter
Orb 0°58' Applying
Obstacles are strewn along the path of this relationship because of the difficult
combination of the planets Jupiter and Pluto. On the one hand Winston and Mati
feel a compelling need to relate to each other. On the other hand they find
their opposing values a formidable hurdle. The problem is that they fail to
understand each other at a deep level and yet this is an important component
in their relationship. Winston believes that he attempts to take an honest
approach to his partnership, but is undermined by Mati's insistence on delving
beneath the surface. Mati is frustrated in her efforts to get to the bottom
of matters. She is particularly angry when she perceives that Winston contradicts
himself. Their challenge is to find personal meaning in their own lives, while
respecting the other person's values and beliefs.
Mati's Pluto Conjunction Winston's Pluto
Orb 3°07' Separating
This planetary combination of Pluto is not a significant one in relationship
astrology. It indicates common values, which can help form a basis for a relationship.
However, many other combinations of planets will make a more significant contribution
to this union between Mati and Winston.
Mati's Pluto Trine Winston's Ascendant
Orb 5°24' Applying
Sparks fly when one person's Pluto connects with another person's Ascendant.
This is a powerful combination indicating a dynamic relationship. Both Mati
and Winston are intensely attracted to each other and stand to learn much about
themselves and relationships under the influence of this combination. Mati
has a particularly powerful role to play in Winston's life, shattering year-long
habits and introducing an element of excitement. While Winston might initially
feel uprooted and insecure as a result of the changes in his life, he comes
to appreciate a sense of rejuvenation that comes with throwing out the old
and welcoming the new. The success of this relationship depends on other aspects
strengthening the long-term bond between Mati and Winston.
Mati's Chiron Trine Winston's Moon
Orb 0°44' Applying
Winston and Mati have a gentle and loving relationship, which plays a significant
role in their lives. They have an intuitive understanding of each other's needs,
an empathy that sometimes seems to go beyond the bounds of human understanding.
Winston feels that destiny has played a role in attracting Mati into his life.
It is true that Mati has the capability of sensitively changing Winston's life,
helping him satisfy previously unmet emotional needs. Mati may play a nurturing,
healing or teaching role in this relationship. It is likely that Winston feels
safe in this relationship. In turn Winston provides Mati with opportunities
to discover new talents, particularly in the fields of teaching, or orthodox
or unconventional medicine. This is likely to be a close, intimate relationship
that helps both Winston and Mati weather life's troubles and discover joy.
Mati's Chiron Opposition Winston's Jupiter
Orb 6°47' Applying
With this combination it is difficult for Winston and Mati to maintain a long-term
relationship because they have conflicting ethics. Their past experiences have
taught each of them certain values and Winston and Mati find it hard to reconcile
their differences. This could be particularly true when it comes to religious
values. The challenge is to respect each other and learn from their differences.
Mati is more likely to have difficulty in this association because she is more
sensitive to the conflicts. Whereas Winston is more likely to take a philosophical
and optimistic approach to the problems. A beneficial and joyful relationship
can result if Winston and Mati are able to close the door on problems and hurts
from previous relationship and enter into this liaison with a sense of joy.
Together they can heal each other's emotional pain, gaining understanding and
insights into relating.
Mati's Chiron Conjunction Winston's Neptune
Orb 1°55' Separating
The healing powers of nature, music and the arts may play a significant role
in this union. Winston and Mati have a romantic and empathetic relationship,
in which they both place importance on gentle and loving communication. As
a result they are able to forgive and forget loved ones who have hurt them
in the past, and move slowly towards a better understanding of their innermost
selves and each other. The artistic and spiritual side of Winston's nature
proves particularly healing for Mati. Under Winston's gentle influence, Mati
is able to heal past emotional wounds and better express herself. Together
they may take part in a spiritual, healing or artistic project.
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